The Sussexes, along with Prince William and Catherine, attended the public tributes at Windsor Castle on September 10th.
While the reunion of the Fab Four was expected to draw attention, it was Harry and Meghan’s body language that ignited the internet, in contrast to William and Catherine’s.
The Sussexes were seen walking closely together and holding hands, while there seemed to be a noticeable distance between Prince William and his wife.
Fans of Harry and Meghan interpreted their public display of affection (PDA) as evidence of their love, while using the lack of PDA between William and Catherine as proof of a strained relationship.
However, not everyone shares this sentiment.
Bethany Frankel, in an episode of her Just Be With Bethany Frankel podcast, expressed her opinion on the outing, and it was far from complimentary.
Frankel dismissed the comparison of affection between couples who have been together for different lengths of time.
She emphasized the nearly two-decade-long relationship of William and Kate, suggesting that reading into their body language would be unwise, given their future roles as king and queen.
As for Harry and Meghan, Frankel had some strong words: “Get.
Your.
Fucking.
Shit.
Together.
And grow up.”
This is not the first time Frankel has criticized Prince Harry and Meghan.
In a previous podcast episode, she labeled Meghan as sanctimonious and compared her to reality TV stars who continue to talk about the shows they were once on.
Frankel’s remarks reflect a growing divide in public opinion regarding the Sussexes.
On the other hand, an expert in body language analysis claimed that Harry and Meghan’s minimal physical contact during the Queen’s funeral was a sign of respect.
However, much attention was given to the brief moments when they did reconnect.
Katie Aloisel, a body language expert and connections specialist, defended the couple’s displays of affection, comfort, and reassurance, stating that it was in line with their naturally tactile and affectionate nature.
Aloisel acknowledged the complexity of emotions and emphasized that different individuals express grief in different ways.
While some withdraw, others seek and provide comfort through physical touch.
In the context of mental health awareness, Prince Harry’s work as a passionate ambassador for mental health was highlighted.
During the funeral service, Meghan remained still, her gaze fixed either straight ahead or downcast towards the floor.
However, once the service concluded, there was a noticeable shift in Prince Harry and Meghan’s non-verbal communication.
As they prepared to enter their car, there was a moment of connection between them, with Prince Harry gently touching Meghan’s back in a reassuring gesture.
Prince Harry’s exhale, accompanied by a puffing of his cheeks, was interpreted as a stress-relieving behavior.
In conclusion, the Sussexes’ display of affection at the Queen’s funeral has sparked controversy and divided public opinion.
While some view it as a testament to their love, others criticize it as inappropriate.
The contrasting viewpoints highlight the complexities of emotions and individual expressions of grief.